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THE TOP TEN (+ two) THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN WITH ANY DOMINANT 

2) Remember to always use terms of respect, and titles. 

3) Upon entrance nudity is required ... IMMEDIATELY. 

4) Subs are to be on their knees at all times, when in their Top's sight.  A slave may look at a top, but do not stare.  

5) FOLLOW ORDERS - or leave. 

6) Eyes, Ears, Brain - open and on.  MOUTH CLOSED 

7) Remember to say please and thank you, in those rare times you are opening your mouth. 

8) One should always take along a gift when one goes to worship, no matter the medium used to worship. 

9) Rewards and play are just that, and one must work in order to receive time to play, and/or earn their reward.  If you don't succeed in accomplishing things to your Top's satisfaction, you in turn will find that things tend not to be to your satisfaction either.  (In other words you won't have any "spirited fun".) 

10) YOU ARE HERE TO SERVE ME.   This is my home - my game.  I will dictate what does and does not happen.   If you ever encounter a problem with that mentality you have three choices.
  1) GO ELSEWHERE
2) PAY ME $300/hr to read your script
3) DEAL WITH IT.

Those Plus two items shouldn't even need to be said, however experience has shown me differently.

1) Directions, commands, arrangements and such are in place for a reason.  If you fail to do as requested, ordered, or arranged ... your relationship/ agreement may very well come to an early and unpleasant end.

2) Make sure you know what you want, or are looking for (and are sure of it) before you suggest any activity to your playmate. If you're not sure, you might try a watered down version of said activity with someone else for your first attempt.   BUT BE CLEAR ON THE FACT THAT THIS IS SOMETHING YOU HAVE NOT YET TRIED, AND THAT THIS IS YOUR FIRST REAL ATTEMPT WHEN TALKING WITH YOUR DOMINANT.

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  The Other 10 + 2 Things to keep in Mind ...

  A Dominant is not there to expressly cater to your kinks and fetishes.

  A Dominant has Their Own trust and security issues, and is not going to compromise Their safety for the sake of your promise.

  A Dominant has emotions and limits just the same as you do, be kind and kindness will return to you.

  A Dominant is always chased and hounded, always pursued, always desired.  We don't want to chase, to persevere to endure, We want that worshipping and pampering We were promised.

  A Dominant will allow you to love Them only so long as this "love" doesn't interfere with the relationship progression or your servility.

  A Dominant who is having a crappy day is expecting a positive change in mood through your visit, do not "stir the pot."

  A Dominant - A Sadist - A Disciplinarian - A Fetishist ... Oh to be all things to all people - It's not going to happen, so just enjoy.

  A Dominant is not a disciplinarian, and a disciplinarian itching to spank you does not need to be encouraged - honest.

  A Dominant is not a sadist, a sadist is a sadist, and a sadist itching to make you scream does not need to be encouraged - honest.

  A Dominant  is not a fetishist, and a dominant who has no interest in catering to you will not be swayed, seek elsewhere.

A slave who learns self control at all times will fare much better than those who regress.

A slave who sits in judgment of another is no slave at all, do not judge - Just remove yourself from the proximity of the problem.