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The Fetish List – 101
Explore your kink!

 

  There seems to be some degree of difficulty discerning a fetish from role-playing or various scenes.  A fetish is something that in and of itself is not necessarily sexual but that turns you on, or something that just the thought of will elicit a reaction for you.  I could give you the text book psychology definition, but that's just not a lot of fun is it.  Basically they say if it is a fetish it has to be outside of you physically, able to withstand your abuse and neglect and a bunch of other stuff which only applies to some of the fetishes which are most common, so shrinks be damned - here's the fetish list - Enjoy!

 Not everyone who is a practitioner of a fetish is a Top or a bottom, and if more people were to come to the understanding that a fetishist is not always a practitioner of D/s I believe it would alleviate a lot of the stress and concerns which are voiced out of all sides of the scene.  These people are not playing games, they are exercising their right to kink, and trying to figure it all out - Be understanding and supportive you may be making a strong longtime friend.

  So - Some of these fetish type things are:

        101)   ALL THE STUFF I'VE MISSED

  So by this point I'm sure that you get the general idea.  To someone out there these things are sexual.  Not all of them will apply to any one person, and there are a few things that for one reason or another did not make it onto the list.  If you have an interest in those items I'm sure you know what they are.  But that should give you some basic and general idea of what a fetish is, and whether or not you have any of the more common ones.

Apparently there now seems to be lots of miscommunication and uncertainty about the items on the list.  Most fetishes will fall into one of four groupings ... Clothing and surroundings  ... Actions ... Mental space or involvements, and personal.

   Clothing being attire of yourself and the surroundings.

  Actions being what’s going on around them, doing, watching.  Involved or not.

  Mental space being where you and they are both emotionally and mentally , together AND individually.

  And personal being things like what the person looks like, the things they do.  The things you find attractive about them.

  For instance to have just anyone just walk up to some people on the street and order you to your knees ... Well for most it won't work like that ... but if THESE things were in place ...

  So okay you might like a more in-depth explanation of what the heck are some of those things anyways ...

Here we go ... you ready now?

 1) Leather ... clothing, bonds, collars ... most people like the smell the feel the coolness and how it molds.  So um yea your leather couch might raise the odd hormone or two with people ... You could use it to have sex on as more than not just in the bedroom ... hmmmmmmmmm.

2) Body Hair ... Well some people like it some don't.  What we were looking at in this one is the guys who like hairy bush, sometimes armpits and legs too yes.   Or perhaps as women the like men with lots of chest hair ... Or more even.

3) Rubber ... Most people prefer this item as clothing, restraining stuff again.  In the right weight and texture it can be very soft, for use as sheets.  As clothing it stimulates the outer layers of skin, and the skin becomes very sensitized.

4) Fingernails ... generally they'll be on female hands long and painted any variety of colours.

5) Stilettos ... Those shoes with the really high thin heels, usually around 5-6".  They shape the calf nicely, as well as make a lady taller.  Many people find an urge to get on their knees and kiss and lick these ... Given the right circumstances and all.

6) Feet ... Big or small, smelly, dirty, clean, in shoes or socks heck even slippers.  The foot fetish comes in more varieties than breakfast cereal so ask and be sure you're clear on this one.

7) Garter belts ... They hold up stockings ... Frame a bum, hips and tummy nicely. Can have 2 straps to stockings per leg or up to like eight.  Lots of people prefer garter belts and stockings to panty hose.

8) Spanking ... To watch it or have it done.  From a light spanking to a welt raiser.  Whether with an implement or a hand again  a spanking fetish has many different variables and is very common.

9) Lace ... See through and available in many colours, weights and with many things available like opalescence and metallic thread lace is a popular choice among fetishists.  Clothing and even used in surroundings and decorating it can be revealing and concealing both, at the same time.

10) Bondage ... Restraints of many varieties, be they hog tied with a rough rope, or softly held in fur lined cuffs many possibilities come to mind with a bondage fetishist.  Upright, prone, bound to themselves, furniture, or specially designed restraining apparatus this fetish is both popular and common one to not only watch but do.  

11)  PVC ... Another fabric, used in fetish clothing.  PVC is like rubber coated stretch fabric.  Do I need to say this one is quite common?

12) Blindfolds ... Used to remove one of the five senses, to develop trust and to heighten the other senses, many  people enjoy a blindfold on occasion with their sex.  Creates and heightens many emotions.

13) Short Skirts ... Need I say more?

14) Anal ... Look at em ... Feel em ... Kiss em ... Penetrate em ... Fist em perhaps even. 

15) Legs/Stockings ... Being as a leg goes in a stocking these ones go together.  Some like legs bare, some like seamed, some like silk.  Common, and variable.

16) Water Sports ... This is commonly referred to as peeing.  Some people like to have it done on them, some like to drink it, others like it to be done inside of them in one fashion or another.

17) Tits ... Um need I say more?

18) Panties ... all kinds.  On all shapes of people, clean and dirty.

19) Metal Clothing ... Commonly referred to as chain-maille.  Some like it for the weight, the relative transparency, the feeling of protection, the cool metal.  Lots of reasons to like it, besides ... It looks kewel!

20) Lingerie ... Cross dressers, straight men and women, whether its how you look in it, the feel of it, or how someone else looks in their more private attire.  Most of us have had an inkling towards this one on one or two occasions.

21) Older Playmates ... No explanation given.

22) Public Places ... No explanation wanted.

23) Size differences ... Big or little lots of us like our partners to have a different body shape and size than our own.

24) Inanimate Objects ... Dildos, vibrators, hair brush handles, screw driver handles, bottles, heck we've seen ALL kinds of different things fall into this category.  Theory being hey if ya think ya might be able to get it in there go for it.

25) Accents ... If you need elaboration seek help.

26) Married Playmates ... Some people like married partners because thy seem more unattainable, others because the commitment is less ... But the fetish seems to center on having someone else’s partner.  On somehow tainting.

27) Skin Tone Variations ... I’m sure you can fathom it.  For some a difference in a skin tone is a very stimulating thing.  The contrast of the tones has come to be an accepted fetish.  Black, white, oriental, or a shade of brown.  This too is a common fetish.

28) Nipples ... big, small, inverted, sticking way out, long, cones, points ... Just plain Nipples.

29) Muscles ... lots, a little, tummies, arms, legs.  Most of us prefer some tone at least.

30) Unconventional Locations ... The everywhere but the bedroom person.  Cars, counter tops, a friends bathroom.  Wherever the urge strikes.

31) A Hypnotizing Stare ... Look deep into my eyes, tell me you want me.  To feel me, to smell me ... Look deep within my eyes and allow yourself to be pulled into my being.

32) Sex Trade Professionals ... Strippers, the girl behind the counter in the adult store, hookers, sex counselors, lots of people have a weakness for both men and women falling into this category.

33) Shaving ... doing it, having it done, the feel of smooth skin is a common fetish for either sex.

34) Biker  Types ... Male or female.  For both male and female.

35) Well Endowed Men ... Length, width, balls or all of the above.  I'll shut up now.

36) Body Worship ... The pampering and spoiling of ones person.  Being bathed, kissed and licked, massages.  Some prefer to get, some prefer to give. 

37) Sensual Stimulation ... Fingers, feathers or pinwheels, hot wax, ice and 9v batteries.  Some people just like to feel something a little less common than the same every day touch.

38) Filling of Orifices ... Fisting, and stretching anal or vaginal. Male or female some like to do it some like to have it done, some freak out.  Who knows, but it is a little more common than you might initially suspect.

39) Gender Bending ... Boys being girls and girls being boys.   It goes both ways. Clothing, demeanor, makeup all of it or some of it might apply.

40) Labia ... Big, small, long, pierced ... Just give me pussy lips.  Lemme touch em and look it em and kiss em.

41) Tight Clothing ... If you need help with this you suffer from ALZHEIMERS.  Check the next Fredrick’s of Hollywood catalogue.

42) Nudity ... In public, or watching through a window.  For some people just nakedness is a stimulation.  Watching it, looking at themselves naked, or others. 

43) Smothering ... Come here and sit on my face and enjoy yourself ...  don't worry 'bout whether I can breathe.  Some people prefer a big bust line smoothering them, some prefer an ass, some like thighs around the neck.  But I think you've got it now.

44) Semi Transparent Clothing ... Hm gee I don’t know what this one is ...

45) Exhibitionism ... Everything to streaking in a hotel to having someone watch you masturbate, or having sex.  Some people prefer to only exhibit certain body parts or talents others are just pervs ...

46) Voyeurism ... Wanna watch???

47) Corsets ... Trim the waist, accentuate both hips and busts.  A fetishist of clothing might prefer this one.  Long or short corsets, with or without garters for stockings.  They come in many styles and colors.

48) Cock and Ball Torture ... Well they might be spanked, or weighted, tied off, held apart, pierced, clamped, clipped, frozen, heated ... Um ya getting the idea here?

49) Clamps ... Tend to be bigger and heavier than clips.  I have seen vice grips used in play as clamps.  This is a more definitive flesh "bite" than a clip.

50) Weights ... Lots of things can be used as weights.  A simple one is an empty bucket and then gradually fill it with water.  Fishing weights, from lil ones to great big honking ones.  They can be attached to permanent or temporary piercings, genitals, or clamps equipped to deal with it.

51) Clips ... The most common variety being your common clothes peg.  They are usually smaller and have more of a "pinch" than a "bite".  They can be found in very small sizes and although you might think they are cute small ... The smaller the clip the tighter the pinch.

52) Satin/Silk ... Soft, shimmer, slippery.  In sheets, clothing, lingerie, and even underwear a satin fetish is another common phenomenon, it is conceivable for one to have a fetish for only one of the fabrics.

53) Masturbation ... Some people just seem to have to do it more than others.  Public, private, short periods, lengthy ones.  Some people just prefer the safe sex and comfort of themselves over that of others.  The fetish for masturbation, the constant thought ... the need to do it a certain number of times a day. 

54) Video and Photography ... For some people the notion of being before the planet and recorded is quite a turn on.  It can help, to be more comfortable with surroundings and all the people involved.

55) Piercing ... Metal and flesh joined.  A mark of ownership perhaps, or a reclaiming of ones self.  A decoration or a means to it piercing of the sexual anatomies including tongues, nipples, genitals and belly buttons.

56) Oral ... A mouth and a body ... Also a form of body worship.  Usually done on the genitals, however sucking on fingers, toes and all over kissing is also an accepted part of the fetish.

57) Enemas ... Ok I wont gross people out with the details but yeah it's the kind yer thinking.  Some people find filling the anal cavity with fluid stimulating.  These people might also fall into the filling slot mentioned earlier.

58) Nail Polish ... All colours and with or without special effects.  Some people just find painted nails a weakness.

59) Lipstick ... Not as common as some of the others, but still a high runner.  I have run into people who prefer to smoke off of a cigarette after a lady with heavy lipstick.  Some like it applied thickly right before fellatio, and kissing. (see 56)

60) Humiliation ... Verbal abuse, some like various degrees of physical stuff happening, some like it in public, others prefer it to be private. A humiliation fetishist might like the notion of licking your toilet clean, or the floor, or even the thought of you using their face for toilet paper, after having used the toilet.

61) Wrestling ... Some people like to watch two ladies wrestle, some like the thought of being wrestled into submission.  With or without oils and grease. Male, female, both.

62) Various smells ... Perfume, flowers, leather, pussy, sex, incense, scented candles, some of the smells that turn people on can be weird ... gas? a garage? uh huh Different things turn different people on, I have even run across someone who liked the smell of pee in a hot shower.

63) Facial Hair ... Beards or moustaches, a lil or a lot.

64) "Untouchables" ... Rock starts, radio personalities, that super sexy neighbour who doesn't know you exist, your kids teacher.  Those people you want and figure you can't have ... But you know if ya tried you might be amazed at the outcome.

65) Belly Buttons ... Need I say more? Innies or outties ... Both are acceptable.

66) Collar ... For some people the sight of a collar elicits a discernable physical reaction.  The thought of it circling their neck and as a claim of ownership.  The leather might be a help, or metal as the case may be.

67) Messy Games ... Oils, food, lots a things might be used.  Anything from a few eggs to whip cream and chocolate syrup.  Bring along a drop cloth  and a plastic or rubber sheet ...

68) Hands ... Hmmmmmm nice hands on your body, inside of it.  Touch, and shape. 

69) Long Head Hair ... It looks good, and some people like to feel it all over their bodies.  They might like it just tickling over them or prefer to have their parts wrapped in it, but long head hair can be a most effective sexual tool ... Used properly.

70) Various Colours ... Usually this is a clothing thing, or nails, or shoes, or panties ... I'm sure you kin figure it out.

71) Body Odor ... SWEAT ... pussy and sex.  I'd say that’s about the extent of it.  It is interesting to note that in the sweat of either sex a pheromone is found that is both sexually stimulating and attracting to the opposite sex.  So if this is one ya like there might even be medical reason ... Don't be embarrassed.

72) Confinement ... Small spaces for extended periods.  We aren't referring to restraining we're referring to confining ... Like a jail cell ...  A box ... A cage... something like that.  The running commonality is either being a prisoner and treated as such, or an animal.

73) Verbal Abuse ... Talk to me ... Call me names ... Get perverted and VERBAL.  Doesn't necessarily mean swearing and most prefer it without the swearing so be creative.

74) Human Furniture ... You might want to mould into the furniture ... so why not be it.  A table, a stool, a table, a chair, a coat rack ... Who knows but the human body can be many things other than on two feet.

Furniture however neither moves nor speaks.  This might fall into humiliation for some.

75) Equestrian Training ... Pony boys and girls ... They come with manes and tails.  Sometimes a dildo is inside panties and a tail sewn in the outside, sometimes a butt plug with tail is used.  What would normally be a gag is a bit and attached to the head piece holding mane.  Most times riding boots are worn, for foot protection and as the only item of clothing (baring the panties should they be permitted).

76) Canine Training ... Wanna be my dog?  Get naked on your hands and knees and bark for me, eat out of a dish, wear my collar and lead.  But most importantly remember now ... Puppies can't talk.

77) Group Encounters ... Trading, swapping, orgies, some people do it some just wish they could.

78) Pregnant and Lactating Women ... The epitome of woman, full of life and bursting with womanhood.  Some like the milk because of taste and nothing more, for others it's more complex.

79) Anonymous Encounters ... I don't want to know your name or anything about you, but I'd LOVE to get into your pants.  This is another of those very common but secret fetishes.

80) Overpowering Playmates ... Those who do not ask that you give them ... they take it.  By force if need be.  We might be getting into a rape fetish here.

81) Forced Feminization ... Tie me up, dress me in frilly clothes, put make up on me, humiliate me. Make me be a girl whether I want it or not.

82) Heavy Makeup ... Eyes and lips are the most common areas, thick, heavy and dark.

83) Diapers ... Or adult babies.  Some like this form of play others don't.

84) Body Painting ... With food, or edible paints, or even neon ones some people find the sensations of the brush and or the look of painted flesh some yummy!!

85) Tattoos ... Some like em some think they ugly, but to some people  tattoo is far and away the sexiest thing someone could ever wear.

86) Dirty Talk ... During and with sex, or outside of it.  From discussing fantasies to begging to be fucked harder this one is an unwritten favorite for most.  You could also throw loud partners in there I guess ... As we seem to have omitted them  (???)

87) Cigarettes and  Holders ... Smoking is a fairly common fetish and I have found in my travels that cigarette holders seem to be a common turn on too, probably has to do with something long and thin fitting so nicely between those lips ...

88) Fur ... Snuggle me in it, let me feel it against my skin.  It's so soft and feels so nice.

89) Braziers ... Lace, under wired, push up, cotton, black, white ... lots of possibilities here too.

90) Trampling ... Like as in under foot yes. In bare feet, heels, boots or running shoes.  Walk on me ... Jump on me ... Stomp me like a bug.  Or do it nicely ... Basically just stick your feet all over me with little to no concern for my comfort.

91) Capitulation ... The ultimate surrender or giving over of control.  Power exchange, when one accepts within themselves that they are slave and THIS is their Owner.  The one to whom obedience and surrender of all that they are, mind, body and soul is far less of a question and more of a need.

92) Culcockery ... This would be if I were to tie up my husband and make him watch as I had sex with someone else.  Especially if the significant other would really rather not watch.

93) Rape ... Most people would like to have this happen ... Under the right circumstances with it being controlled, and done by someone they love and trust.  Course others like to think about "taking" someone.

Some people seem to think that if someone says they would like it to happen it isn't rape.  It isn't WHAT is done but rather HOW it is done.

94) Mummification ... A complete covering of the body leaving one less than mobile (generally).  The fabrics used should be breathable though as complete body coverage heats the body quickly. 

95) Text and Audio ... Fantasies, books, phone calls, messages.  A safe sex practice that can be found every where from catalogues and books to on the World Wide Web to the local adult book store.

96) Trans Gendered Play Mates ... Most of these individuals are on their way from becoming one sex to the other. They will have (usually) tits and a cock.

97) Hermaphrodites ... A rare breed ... These people possess the sexual anatomies of BOTH SEXES.  A penis and a vagina ...

98) Uniforms ... Military, police, medical, mail man, fire men, whatever gimme a uniform and I'll show ya hormone.  Some people are only interested in certain uniforms others will go for anyone in a "goof suit".

99) Food Stuffs ... In and on thee body, feeding each other, filling orifices with it and then eating it out ... Slippery, sticky, wet, cold, warm there are many variables with this one.

100) Amputees ... Perhaps it's an immobility thing, perhaps because they like filling and find it easier without appendages.  I'm not sure about the desires on this one, so if you are interested in it and have some perspective on interest please do let me know.

101) Anything I've Missed ... Most of it was skipped intentionally for the sake of those less educated and open minded people, doesn't mean I don't accept it.  Just that others might SPAZZ.

  Ok so I think that should help with some of the confusion and general sense of loss people are feeling at looking at this massive list of interests.  Thanks for the interest in YOURSELF!!

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